Pricey Annie: About 5 years in the past, my youthful brother “Henry” and I had a falling out over a household inheritance concern after our father handed away. Phrases had been mentioned that we each in all probability remorse, however neither of us has made a transfer to reconnect since.
We reside in the identical metropolis however haven’t spoken, even at holidays. Our mom has tried a number of instances to softly encourage us to make amends, however we’ve each averted the dialog.
Now, my brother’s spouse simply had their first baby. I discovered via a mutual cousin who noticed the infant announcement on social media. A part of me desires to ship a card or a small reward to acknowledge the beginning and possibly open the door somewhat. However I additionally don’t need it to return throughout as shallow or too little, too late.
Is it acceptable to achieve out after years of silence simply because there’s a brand new child within the image? Or ought to I await a extra direct alternative to speak via what occurred earlier than attempting to rebuild any form of connection? — On the Sidelines
Pricey On the Sidelines: Births and deaths have a method of constructing us understand simply how quick life is. If a small a part of you desires to reconnect with Henry, then he in all probability feels the identical — particularly with a brand new baby within the image.
Attain out with a card or a small reward. Down the road, you possibly can talk about what occurred 5 years in the past. However now could be a time to have fun.
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